Unfortunately, different means are used to achieve the goals. And sooner or later, almost everyone is faced with deception. Therefore, in order not to fall further on the hook of deceivers, it is necessary to learn to recognize them.
Instructions
Step 1
Most people have had to lie in their lives. Therefore, first of all, if you belong to this majority, remember exactly how you behave when you tell a lie. Lying, for example, in business or personal life, can cause irreparable harm, so you need to see it at the very beginning. The behavior of deceivers is not unique, but there are some similar signs for all people.
Step 2
Remember - an experienced liar knows very well and understands that his shifting gaze, unwillingness to look into the eyes of the interlocutor will easily give him away. Therefore, here on his part an inflection is possible, i.e. he will look too closely into the eyes. In general, do everything so that his movements and facial expressions do not alert the interlocutor. During a conversation, he often gets confused, asks again. In a quick speech, some clever phrase is repeated more than once. And during a slow conversation, he closely monitors each word, carefully ponders the words, pauses. Ask him questions, if he is lying, then he will answer evasively, or even begin to ask counter questions himself. With a poorly thought out history, he will betray himself in detail.
Step 3
Feel how your interlocutor feels. If he is honest, then he will behave in a relaxed manner, smile not only with his lips, but also with his eyes. The liar, on the other hand, will have an inappropriate smile, gestures, and emotions that don't fit the conversation. With his movements, he will try to distract you from reality. But don't overdo it. People can also have uncontrollable nervous habits (jerking legs, fingering small objects, etc.). Also note the exaggerated friendliness when the setting doesn't suggest it. The deceitful interlocutor, perhaps, will focus on the little things, be indignant about the insignificant reason.
Step 4
If you are dealing with a consultant of a store when buying a product, then never forget those simple truths that any seller is interested in selling everything faster. And the consultant is also interested in this, tk. his salary will depend on it. Unfortunately, consultants are often forced to lie, otherwise they will simply lose their jobs. Therefore, before buying, do not be lazy to go through several stores, read or consult with friends about the product you need. This is especially true of technology, because there are often difficulties with subsequent warranty or service.
Step 5
All kinds of promotions and sales should also alert you. The organizers don't just do it. And having heard once again the speech of young sellers "just today, only here you can buy something with a 50% discount (or more)" think! Free cheese only comes in a mousetrap. Ask sellers why they are running this promotion. After hearing the answer, decide whether or not you should buy it. Sellers in any case will remain in the black, but you are unknown.
But do not think that everything is bad and all enemies are around. Just answer first the question "what goal can a person pursue in this matter, what is his benefit?" And if nothing bothers you, your inner voice prompts nothing, then everything will be fine.
