Each person with whom we communicate, are friends, work together, in one way or another, influences us. And, of course, I want communication to bring joy. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Due to naivety, lack of transparency or kind-heartedness, we often allow people who cause pain and trouble to come too close to us, and then we do not know how to get rid of them. You should not despair - everything is possible.
Instructions
Step 1
The main thing is not to try to dot the i's. It is not always necessary to reveal to a person the whole truth about how bad he is and so on. Each person has his own truth, and at the same time, no one wants to admit mistakes for himself, but happily dumps the blame on others. Therefore, an open conversation will only lead to a scandal, a waste of nerves and further confrontation. Moreover, you should not arrange "open partings" with those with whom you often encounter, for example, at work or with mutual friends.
Step 2
The surest way is to smooth out communication. Time is something that every person always lacks. It is worth emphasizing on this: "I would be glad to meet, but I have so much to do today …" Reduce communication smoothly, occasionally show signs of attention, but continue to keep your distance.
Step 3
Let go of accusations and grievances. Try to see the good sides of the person as well. Think about the reasons for his bad behavior. Go to church and pray for his health. Don't wish him bad things. Do not say “Let him disappear”, replace this wording with a positive one “let him disappear from my life for the benefit of myself and me”.
Step 4
Try to understand what life lesson you should learn from communicating with an unpleasant person. Typically, when you understand your mistake and begin to understand the situation as a whole, the bad person, as if by magic, disappears from your life. And no one like him appears again. After all, the mission is complete. Lesson learned.
