Being a normal person and being "average" are not the same thing. A normal person strives for his own goals, has individual character traits, his own view of things. The "middle" are people who are no different from others. Constantly being in a state of "middle peasant" threatens with serious personal problems, because you do not develop, do not stand out, try to be "like everyone else" and thus lose valuable time, let your life take its course.
Instructions
Step 1
You equate your life with your work. If your main goal in life is a salary, this is not good. By tying life to work, you become completely dependent on it. Your mood will be determined by the mood inside the office. Your motivation will directly depend on your success in the workplace. The work will not last forever, sooner or later you will retire, and then life will remember you all that you lost, wanting to be the “perfect employee”.
Step 2
You spend too much time on apps and social media. These devices are really handy. They make it easy to establish communication with other people. However, most people use them excessively. Just think how much time is wasted when you surf social media. If you do not want to remain "average" any longer, kill your addiction to social media and applications.
Step 3
You always consider yourself busy. It seems to you that you have too many things to do, so you can neglect dinner with your family or a walk with your loved one. Practice shows that 80% of the time a person spends on completely unnecessary things. Try to think about whether you really need to cope with this task. Maybe completely different things are of real value to you.
Step 4
You like to gossip. Many people enjoy talking about the perceived flaws of others. This happens on a subconscious level, a person just thinks that he is not so bad. Give up this habit. In the end, will you be pleased if they start talking about you behind your back?