We are all familiar with the situation when it becomes difficult to communicate with relatives or friends. In order not to spoil your mood, use these recommendations.
What to do if you find it difficult to communicate …
… with a relative
Unfortunately, there is no ideal relationship between children and parents, siblings, grandparents and grandchildren. It is one thing when you peacefully coexist and only sometimes argue over trifles, but a completely different thing is the total divergence of views on life and on the surrounding reality. Sometimes it can poison your life. All kinds of people meet, so be honest with yourself first. Is this relative really unbearable and do you feel like a squeezed lemon after talking to him? If the answer is yes, feel free to limit your communication with this person. It's better to take care of your moral health than what people think.
… with my boyfriend
Here everything is almost the same, as in the case of relatives. Constant "litigation" with your beloved is a sure sign that the relationship is beginning to depreciate. If it's all about the little things, then you just need to learn how to communicate more effectively. Learn to express your thoughts competently and intelligibly, as well as listen to your partner. If you understand that no matter how hard you try, your young man is not interested in this and your needs and opinions are not taken into account at all, feel free to break off such relations. They will only bring you pain and humiliation.
… with colleagues and superiors
In the modern rhythm of life, when work takes up almost all of our time, it is necessary to be able to communicate well with the authorities. If you do not particularly understand what exactly is wanted from you, do not hesitate to make an appointment and directly ask everything in detail. It may happen that what was said is not pleasant, but this way you will understand what you need to work on, and this understanding can change your work environment to the completely opposite.
… with friends
Friends are the family we choose. Usually 1-2 people are recruited as true friends, and we value this friendship very much. But even here it is not without communication problems. Since you know each other best, try to control yourself as tightly as possible during an argument, as in anger you may say something that will inflict a huge spiritual wound on your friend. If you see that your friend has absolutely changed, and this is no longer the person with whom you were once friends, but to the person he became, you would not even come a kilometer, maybe it's time to think about changing the circle communication.
