How often do you notice that the innocent flirting of strangers with your boyfriend causes a storm of jealousy in you? For example, a hug when meeting a stranger seems too long to you, and suddenly you involuntarily begin to scroll through your head thoughts about their possible romance: what if she likes it? What if she told him? Very often, girls are jealous of a guy not only of strangers, but also of hobbies, work and friends. Sometimes jealousy makes the relationship unbearable, however, if desired, everyone can stop being jealous of their boyfriend.
It is necessary
- Hobby
- Self love
- Patience
- Nerves of steel
Instructions
Step 1
To stop being overly jealous of a guy, you have to come to terms with the fact that in small doses, this is a perfectly healthy feeling. Possessiveness is a natural trait of every person. Healthy jealousy is just a kind of reminder of how dear a person is to you, how you love him. However, when jealousy makes you feel unhappy, and when it poisons your love, it's time to think about how to overcome it in yourself.
Step 2
Calmly talk to your boyfriend about the reasons for jealousy. But do not pounce on him with these conversations at the slightest excuse. If something made you feel uncomfortable and experience really unpleasant emotions, calmly share these feelings with your man. Tell us what his actions (or the actions of others) upset you. But be delicate, let him feel how dear to you.
Step 3
Constantly work on trust to stop being jealous of the guy, especially if he has never cheated on you. Don't stalk your man at work or when meeting friends. Accept that there are always women in his life (at work, on public transport, after all) and some people may like him a lot. Don't try to read his emails and social media - this behavior indicates a lack of respect. After all, individual messages that you read out of context can easily mislead you.
Step 4
Do not try to occupy all of his living space: constant SMS, emails and calls can make him feel tired of your presence.
Step 5
To stop being jealous about anything, try asking outsiders for opinions every time. If you think your boyfriend is acting suspiciously, ask your friends for advice. Perhaps your suspicions will seem groundless to them, and you will understand that you were worried in vain.
Step 6
Independence will help you get rid of jealousy. Get yourself a hobby, new friends, hobbies. New activities will help fill your life and rid you of empty jealousy.
