Condemnation is one of the most common human sins. How difficult it is at times to restrain yourself so as not to criticize relatives, friends and just strangers. Through judgment, we rise above other people, but this is the wrong path that leads to self-destruction.
This is one of the commandments that is very difficult for many to keep. In the process of communication, it is very difficult to do without judging someone or responding venomously. But there is one interesting pattern, the more a person collects gossip and judges other people, the more they condemn him.
We all lament the fact that they talk about us in a negative way and spread rumors. But if you think about it, most do the same. How to stop judging and rejoice that someone has been badly criticized?
The love of "bone washing" arises from low self-esteem. A person considers himself to be flawed in some way, and by denigrating others he tries to rise. Thus, he multiplies negative thoughts and clogs the mind. When condemning another person, he seems to be turned off from the stream of his negative and receives a little bit of "joy", speaking badly about the other person.
In order to prevent this, you must try to restrain yourself as soon as you want to gossip about someone. At first it turns out to be difficult, it is difficult to maintain most of the conversations, then gradually a person notices that he begins to be interested not in the lives of other people, but in his own. It is no longer interesting who does what, how he dresses, and what he says.
