Do you feel like your past relationship won't let you go, ready to start over, but not sure if your ex is as interested in it? It seems to you that he still loves you, but is that so or are you wishful thinking? There are many signs by which you can understand whether you still occupy a special place in his heart or whether he has long since erased you from his memory.
It is necessary
- Common sense
- Attention to detail
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to his body language when he is around you. Does he casually try to touch your hand? Does she lick her lips nervously when she looks at you? Does it use any excuse to touch you? Does she look after you when parting?
Step 2
If he always finds some clearly far-fetched reasons to call you, especially if these conversations last longer than any conversations before your breakup, if he ends the conversation in a positive way, he says that. How pleased he was to hear your voice is a good sign.
Step 3
If he constantly finds some common things for you, if he says that you can be friends and still tries to spend a lot of time with you, then this does not mean that he wants to return you. On the one hand, he can really still love you, and on the other, he can simply enjoy the fact that still controls your life.
Step 4
Talk to your friends, ask if your ex contacted them to talk about you? If he is also not sure that you are ready to accept him back, he can "test the waters" through them.
Step 5
If almost all your conversations boil down to discussing your breakup, then this may mean that your ex never understood what went wrong and when, that he cares about you, but he is too proud and self-confident to admit it.
Step 6
In the conversation, mention someone your ex doesn't know. If he starts to be keenly interested in this person, asking where and when you met, how you got there, who else was there - this is a good sign, it means that he still considers himself a part of your life and he is not indifferent to what you do, and so however, perhaps he is a little jealous.
Step 7
If he compliments you, talks about how good you look, how he likes your smell, how this haircut or blouse suits you, this is an obvious timid step towards reconciliation. He shows that he finds you attractive, that he is still physically attracted to you.
