If you are tired of hearing that you are the owner of an unbearable character and you cannot be near you around the clock, then it's time to think about this problem. After all, only you can change your character for the better.
Instructions
Step 1
If you consciously decide that you need to change your behavior, then it is not difficult to do so if you make an effort. To begin with, politely ask someone close to you to film you on a video camera so that you do not really notice it. For example, if a dispute is brewing, and you are the instigator of it, then your loved ones should immediately react and turn on the camera. When you cool down, you should look at the recording with a fresh mind and see yourself from the side. Perhaps you will see the reason that made you so angry, and why you once again allowed yourself to say too much to your loved ones. This video will serve as an incentive for your early changes for the better.
Step 2
Meet someone who has a difficult personality just like you. Perhaps you will easily make friends with him, since you have a similar temperament and demeanor. But, the longer you spend time with him, the longer your communication, the sooner you will think about yourself and your manners. After all, your friend is a kind of mirror that shows your attitude to the world and others. Once you understand this, start living differently. First, connect more with positive and kind people. Second, make it a rule to restrain your irritation by counting mentally to a hundred. Third, read more oriental literature. Books on Eastern philosophy and psychology will help you understand yourself and learn to control your behavior.
Step 3
Charitable work will help you to change your character for the better. Help weak, helpless people, protect children. You can help not only financially, but also support with a kind word a person who is in a difficult situation. For example, start chatting with residents of a nursing home. They will be very pleased that there is still a person in this world who is able to listen to them and, most importantly, expects a letter from them. So gradually, doing good deeds, performing noble deeds, you will acquire the glory of a responsive person with a truly angelic character.
Step 4
Another way to improve your character, for example, is to keep a diary. Express on paper everything that is boiling in your soul. Paper is not a person: it will endure everything. As soon as you write everything, you will immediately feel a slight fatigue, and not a trace of the former irritation will remain.
