You got divorced, and now you are wondering what will happen to you and how to live next? Fear not, divorce is mostly a good thing. Let's see why this is so.
A retreat from wedding taboos
Psychologists point out that weddings in our culture are often overestimated and unnecessarily covered with a veil of inviolability. From childhood, girls are brought up to play with dolls, into princesses, and thus prepare them for the role of bride and mother. These are all the roots of unrealistic expectations that carry over into older age. Women expect their wedding day to be absolutely perfect, they will be princesses, and an idyllic cohabitation with an ideal partner will last until death. Therefore, facing reality can be very painful. Keep in mind that this was only a wedding, and if something doesn't work out, life doesn't stop. You will have other chances and opportunities.
You did it to yourself
Nobody says divorce is common and easy. On the other hand, if you came to such a decision, there was probably a good reason for it. There is no reason to stay in a relationship that is not satisfying and stressful. The fact that you have found the courage and strength to take such a step is commendable enough.
You are rediscovered to yourself
The fact that you are divorced allows you to regain your freedom and gives you the opportunity to boldly discover new people, new things, places and events without having to explain or be criticized to anyone.
