Anyone can find themselves in a situation where it is impossible for him to cope alone and needs the help of strangers. It would seem that there is nothing difficult to ask a person about something, but often it turns out to be a failure. Learn how to properly handle requests, and then you will definitely get a positive response.
Instructions
Step 1
First, decide whether what you are about to ask for really requires third-party intervention. In case you are just lazy and want to blame your problems on others, do not expect someone to agree to help you.
Step 2
It follows from this rule that you yourself must make some effort to solve your problem. Do not be surprised if you are asked about what you have already invested in this business, and if you cannot answer anything intelligible, then those around you will only give you advice to help yourself.
Step 3
It is important to ask someone who can really help you. If we are talking about money, then it makes no sense to ask for it from someone who is himself in a situation of no money. The same applies to those who simply do not have time to help or are in an uncomfortable situation. For example, you see that a person is in a hurry to go somewhere, so do not ask him what time it is.
Step 4
Be clear about what you are going to ask for. It should be a short and understandable story that reflects the very essence of the problem as much as possible, and not the detailed details of your life. Many are guilty of precisely this, launching lengthy explanations that have already lost touch with the request itself.
Step 5
Be polite and don't get angry if you get rejected. It is very unpleasant to hear displeased snorting afterwards, because, in fact, no one owes you anything, and help is voluntary. And with a negative attitude, you will hardly be able to quickly find someone who will fulfill your request.
Step 6
Don't be shy or afraid to make a request. If you are in an unfamiliar city and do not know how to get to the right place, it is unlikely that you will soon find your way to it on your own. In this case, you need not hesitate to turn to a person passing by with a request.
Step 7
Always give thanks. Often people, having received what they wanted, run away without even saying an elementary "thank you". But rest assured, this ugly gesture will return to them the next time they refuse, when they again ask someone for something. Everything in this world is interconnected, and only by learning to thank, you will receive.
