It is difficult to find a couple who has never quarreled. In life together, sometimes there is a clash of interests, and the partners have to somehow get out - to look for compromises, to agree to concessions. If you act correctly, quarrels can even be helpful, because they help resolve situations that did not suit one of the partners.
Calm, only calm
There are men who are delighted by angry women. While you scream, periodically breaking into a squeal, swinging a rolling pin, and your bangs puff up belligerently, the young man's eyes light up. He makes a dexterous thrust, deprives you of the rolling pin, and now you are already hammering your fists into his wide chest, and he begins to press you into the bedroom. However, there are few such men. The bulk of the stronger sex is extremely hard to endure female squeals and tears. If you want to quarrel correctly and successfully convey your thought - do it without hysterical sobbing and throwing plates at your spouse.
In childhood, boys are not allowed to hit girls, but adults rarely pay attention when girls hand out cuffs to boys. During a quarrel, do not get carried away with assault: this is offensive for a man, and in some cases it is painful.
Effectively, with arrangement
Report your claims calmly and as clearly as possible. Perhaps the young man did not realize how annoying you are with his habit of not removing his hair from the comb. And if he guessed, but for some reason she is dear to him, you will have to look for compromises together - whether to get each a separate set of combs or change the guy's hairstyle.
Be straightforward and don't beat around the bush. If you do not like that while you are sick, the man does not cook chicken broth for you, but goes to raids, say so, and do not confuse him with vague hints.
The game of "silence"
Silence is a fairly common behavior strategy after a quarrel. The offended woman turns away and falls silent, demonstratively going about her business. It is assumed that the repentant partner must bring the necessary words of apology, but in fact he may not even guess about the cause of the conflict, and for timid attempts to clarify the situation or just make peace, the lady digs deeper into the book. Offended silence is possible only in those cases when you are sure that your lover is aware of what you are offended. And this should not be done for long, otherwise the man will get used to it and even begin to enjoy the silence.
Talk less, work more
If reasonable arguments do not help in a quarrel with a partner, it is time to move on to action (or inaction - it all depends on the specific situation). Coming home, the spouse casually throws off his clothes on a chair, although you have repeatedly asked him not to do this, ironed his crumpled suit and put it in the closet? Just leave things where the man put them. The next morning, he will either in a hurry try to bring the jacket back to its normal form, or put on another, but if he does not get used to hanging clothes in the closet, fresh suits will soon run out, and he will either have to get used to order or iron his things himself.
