How many real friends do you have? Friendship, like love, must be tested. Are you sure your friends will help you? I wonder if all your friends are worried about you.
In today's world, it is difficult to trust others. In life, we have to learn to recognize the enemy, because most often they are next to us. In pursuit of love, money, family, we forget about friendship, and sometimes we can only count on the help of a friend. How can you check if a friendship is sincere? On average, a person has only 3-4 real friends whom he fully trusts. Do you really think more? Some do not even have one true friend, but only colleagues, family, acquaintances and fake friends. Is it possible to check how a person really treats you? Let's find out how many really good duos you have.
1. Ask for a loan
It sounds simple. Each of them definitely borrowed at least a small amount. But why not ask to borrow a large amount and come up with a really important reason. For example, that you urgently need money for treatment. Well, if a person is good, then he will find a way to help you, even go into debt for your sake. I have only 2 such friends. Maybe there are more decent friends in your environment. In my experience, people in such a situation will think primarily of themselves. When I checked my friends in this way, some began to ignore me, others discussed me behind my back, others felt sorry for me, but said that they could not help. And my favorite: "Now I do not lend money. After all, I was not given the last time." But it was not me, but we were friends for ten years and with these words this man crossed out all our friendship. It got me thinking about the people I used to trust. Naturally, there were friends who helped me, but they were in the minority.
2. You have nowhere to live
Imagine that you have a falling out with your loved one or your parents. You have nowhere to go and besides, you do not know how long you will have to live outside the home. Who will be the first to offer to come to him and help in difficult times. It doesn't matter what kind of problem your friend has or how much living space is. The friend will think of you first. Is your friend ready to take you in? Or maybe friends will not try to find a way out of this situation. Many are not hospitable now and this is frustrating. Why do you need those who do not need worries about your problems?
3. Ask to pick you up or help you at night
Are your friends ready to drop everything and go to your aid. I doubt that everyone will respond. The older a person is, the more worries and responsibilities he has. But is it really a big problem to set aside an hour for a friend? And remember one phrase: "If you do not need us, then you are all the more for us." Now people try not to talk about their problems and try to cope alone, but in vain. Everyone needs help, but those who really care about you.
I hope your friends will respond to your requests and help. But I know for sure, if you do not find out about this now, then in difficult times, you may be hurt by the actions and betrayal of your friends.
