Almost every person at certain moments in life felt like a failure and the weakest link in the team. However, it should be understood that this is not forever, and by working on yourself, you can get out of this situation.
People with psychological development problems become outsiders. It's hard to be alone when you are misunderstood and shunned. With age, people become more tolerant of each other. The most acute period in this regard is adolescence, when the process of personality formation is underway, and the team is forming its own leaders and outsiders (outcasts, losers). There are the following reasons why a team can ignore a person:
- strange behavior caused by abnormalities in the psyche;
- conflict, isolation, arising from the belief that there is only one danger and all enemies;
- open antagonism;
- shyness, gentleness, defenselessness.
With any team, whatever it may be, you can find mutual understanding. If it so happened that a person fell into this category, then you should not despair. Almost all people at one point or another in their lives were outsiders. In any difficult life situations, the origins of the problem should, first of all, be sought in oneself.
Introspection is the most effective way to get out of this situation. It's not easy and painful. In this matter, a psychologist can best help. Since he will give a detailed and objective picture of your problem, as a person who is not interested in comforting or supporting. People come to this kind of specialists to help them see the strengths and weaknesses of a person.
Do not try to please the team that rejected you, this will only worsen the situation. Be who you are. At this stage in your life, you have such a role, work on it, change yourself for the better. And after a while you will be able to see how the world around you has changed.
