The character combines a number of certain personality traits, most importantly - the person's attitude to the people around him and the environment, as well as to himself. Some say that numerous horoscopes influence its formation, others - the type of personality inherent at birth, others rely on the upbringing and climate in the family where the child grew up and formed his views.
Objectivity is the main criterion
It is quite difficult to characterize your own personality. When characterizing your character, it is important to remain objective: to the extent of narcissism and self-criticism. The main thing is that there is no exaggeration or understatement of your qualities, otherwise there will be a considerable amount of error in your introspection. Every effort should be made to look at yourself from the outside. Here, close people can also help - friends or relatives who have known you for several years.
Define your attitude to work. So you will understand not only whether you are hardworking or lazy, but also how diligent, responsible, and laborious. Look at how you feel about other people's work. All this will help to compose your professional portrait from the point of view of the need for work in principle.
How do you feel about things? Look at the objects that surround you. Are you thrifty? Are they petty? Do you value gifts? Or are you an adherent of minimalism and asceticism? In general, the items on which your life and comfortable environment are built will help define some basic character traits.
Why is the “why” question so important?
When describing your inner world, pay attention to situations typical of your life. Think back to the moments that annoy you. Think why this is so? Look at what you like best: what landscapes, weather, mood, people and various little things in them - the timbre of the voice, hairstyle, smile, manicure and so on. Always ask yourself "why?" What makes you angry, what, on the contrary, touches. It is also important to think about your attitude towards the opposite sex.
Explore your preferences in music, literature, painting, describe your interests. By the way, they explain a lot in a person. And one more thing: tell me who your friend is, and I will tell you who you are. Look at the people you think are friends. Perhaps it is they who will act as a mirror of your soul?
Self-digging is not for you?
If self-digging turned out to be beyond your strength, endless thoughts drive you into depression, because you cannot find an explanation for any features, try using special resources. Literature on psychology or the usual supplement with tests for the definition and description of personality - something that will help you at least partially decompose your character. Tests can be very different, so you can look at one character through the prism of, for example, archetypes, socionic types, even the heroes of your favorite works or films! There are many models, but they are not a panacea either.
