How many times did each person plan to start a new life, change outwardly and transform their inner world. But a day passes, the second and again everything falls into place. So what is the reason, is it really impossible to change yourself, your appearance and your inner attitude towards life? Can!
Instructions
Step 1
The most important thing to do when trying to change yourself externally and internally is to realize what you really want out of life. Imagine yourself as you could be. How to look at yourself from the outside. If the future seemed worthy, then you need to translate it into reality.
Step 2
To begin with, you need to draw up a plan for your development for the next ten to fifteen years. Write in there the most global changes that you plan to make with your life. Set your priorities and go boldly towards them.
Step 3
But so that the road to the dream is not too winding, it can be broken down into certain specific milestones. Let's say in two years you plan to graduate from college, in the next three to find a decent job and move up the career ladder, in five to start a family, etc. Now these are already real steps that must be specifically carried out within a certain time frame. Everything is in place. And the dream, from a distant and intangible, began to turn into a reality, to which a clear schedule will lead you.
Step 4
Having established such plans for yourself, you will notice that you have begun to transform internally. Your outlook on life becomes more pragmatic, you know exactly what you want. There is confidence in the future, you imagine where you are going and what you will do in a year.
Step 5
And with internal changes, external ones will come. You will become more confident in yourself, from this your gait, movements will become more volitional, your head will rise higher, your gaze will become open. By developing a sense of sociability, you will be friendlier and more tolerant of others. You will have new friends, new hobbies. The world will change for you, you will feel the taste of life.
Step 6
There will be a desire to change the image, to change completely. You will find that you can control your life. You will no longer cry because something is not working out for you or something is not working out. You will fight, strive and move forward step by step.
Step 7
The most important thing that you must understand is that if you want to change externally and internally, then you can do it. You just need to imagine a real goal and take the first step towards it. And go.
