What kind of guys do girls like? Different. Strong and weaker, confident and humble, rude and considerate. As the proverb says: "There is no comrade for the taste and color." But when you meet, especially through correspondence, you need to make a pleasant first impression, otherwise the communication will end quickly.
Instructions
Step 1
Eliminate grammatical errors. Although the speed of message transmission has been increased thanks to the Internet, this should not prevent you from checking texts for spelling and punctuation errors. Of course, a girl may not notice a couple of missing commas, but gross flaws in the letter like "zhi" - "shi" are striking, speak against your education, and therefore intelligence.
Step 2
Do not insist on a quick meeting in reality, this can be stressful and give the impression that you are pursuing some of your own goals. After a few sessions of conversation, you will understand whether it is time to ask the girl out on a date, or she herself will hint that she would not mind talking to you face to face.
Step 3
Ask open-ended questions that do not imply a monosyllabic answer, let them begin with the questions "how?", "Where?", "How much?" Of course, to the question "how are you?" it is customary to answer "ok", but if you paraphrase it in "how was your weekend?", the interlocutor will need to give a more detailed answer, talk to you.
Step 4
Be interested in the girl's personality, ask about her hobbies, but do not be annoying at the same time, try not to turn the conversation into an interview, talk about yourself. You can find out the main preferences of the object of correspondence on his page on the social network, but be sure to check the information directly with the interlocutor. Telling the girl about visiting her account, you inadvertently hint that you think about her not only during direct communication and want to get to know her better.
Step 5
Try to have a witty and casual conversation in your letters. No rude and trivial jokes, they repel the addressee. But beware of the other extreme - don't become a jester who doesn't take anything seriously. Emphasize the uniqueness of your conversations, point out that when you talk to her, you are relaxing and you can joke and have fun.
Step 6
Be sincere. Communicate on topics that interest both of you, any deception is felt even at a great distance and makes a negative impression. Write that you are having fun only when you are really having fun; show sympathy if you really like the girl. If you are bored and annoyed with the person you are talking to, it may not be your person and you shouldn't spend time and effort maintaining a relationship.
Step 7
Don't forget about compliments. Refuse platitudes, note the uniqueness and ease of your communication, emphasize the qualities that you like in a person. Call the girl by her name. This is one of the best ways to please her. Know when to stop, if there are a lot of compliments, there is a chance that you will be considered too annoying.
Step 8
Contrary to popular belief, you can write some phrases in capital letters using the "Caps Lock" key. Just consider the context. If you write in such a way that you are happy to “see” her again, capital letters will add reinforcement and exclamation to your phrase. Be careful, sometimes such a move can be regarded as a conversation in a raised voice.
Step 9
Finish the next communication session when you feel that there is nothing more to talk about or the lady is tired. Do not wait for monosyllabic answers and phrases like "I am sleeping." At the end of the conversation, write something like: "I am very pleased to communicate with you, but I need to go see my grandmother (help my younger brother with lessons, wash the cat, etc.)." The girl will most likely note your caring attitude towards others. However, remember that this must be true.
