Every person wants to find their love, and, as a rule, at least once in a lifetime this happens to everyone. But there are so many examples before our eyes when not everyone managed to save it. Agree, you have acquaintances who once could not imagine a day without each other, their love seemed eternal, but some time passed, their feelings for each other disappeared somewhere and everyone calmly went his own way, forgetting about my old love. Finding and preserving love, carrying it through all life's troubles is not an easy task.
Instructions
Step 1
Paradoxical as it may sound, but selfless love is available only to a person who loves himself, such a person is able to love and appreciate his environment, recognizing you have the same right to love yourself. They usually love themselves without any preconditions. You should not tie your love to any material well-being or to any actions and actions on the part of a loved one. Love him just like that, regardless of the circumstances, which can often change.
Step 2
In order to preserve his love, do not forget to preserve and develop your own personality and interests. You should always protect your individuality and have your own privacy. This will allow you to keep your partner or husband interested in yourself. In a happy marriage, both spouses are happy, if you completely devote yourself to another person, then only he will be happy from this. You will begin to accumulate grievances associated with your own lack of fulfillment, which someday will surely spill out.
Step 3
You should know that relationships and feelings are cyclical. Even the strongest love at certain moments can weaken in order to then flare up again. Know how to calmly survive these periods both in yourself and your husband, this is a completely normal phenomenon and you do not need to panic and suspect him or yourself that love has passed.
Step 4
To maintain a relationship, you must communicate as much as possible and discuss anything that excites you or piqued your interest. Such close communication, the ability to listen and understand each other, builds trust and unites the family. Your home should be the place where you feel warm, cozy and safe. In this case, both of you will strive for it, and you will be able to preserve your feelings for a long time.
