There must be respect between spouses who are getting divorced and worried about the feelings and psyche of their child. In no case should you insult each other in front of a child.
You should never start a scandal with a child and throw accusations towards your other half that it is allegedly she or he who is to blame for the fact that their family ship was wrecked. This is all unnecessary and such accusations only complicate the situation. Don't make an already difficult situation worse. The child is still small and cannot understand and assess the current situation. For him, the feelings and relationships that occur between two adults are too distant. There is no need to turn the child against mom or dad. This unnecessary and unnecessary action can lead to the fact that the child has a childhood injury, which in the future can lead to serious consequences.
Let the child grow up and begin to understand a little about life. Perhaps then he will be able to understand which of the parents is to blame for the current situation, or maybe this will remain a completely unimportant moment for him, since he will continue to love you as much as before.
Children of different ages handle their parents' divorce in completely different ways. If we consider children aged 1, 5 to 3 years old, then they can show their feelings with the help of whims, as well as demands for attention. There is a risk that such young children will begin to believe that they are the main reason for the parents' divorce, since from the moment of his birth, life radically changed its course and some difficulties appeared. In view of this, you need to provide maximum attention to your child.
Children aged 3 - 6 years cannot find a place for themselves for the reason that their parents separate, and they cannot make sure that they stay together forever. As a result, the child is constantly anxious and in a moodless state. He is not happy about going to the circus, the zoo and new toys. It's not nice, because he is on the verge of a hopeless situation.
Children from 6 to 12 years old are fully confident that they can prevent their parents from separating. In view of this, they can choose between parents and even get up to support mom or dad. In some cases, children run away from home and issue a variety of ultimatums. Everything is done in order to keep the family together.
