It is difficult to understand oneself, a person is multifaceted and does not always immediately find his place in life and true purpose. It is far from immediately possible to choose from a variety of suitable occupations, to be convinced of your well-being, or, on the contrary, to understand what you want, what should be changed, sometimes the answers come with the help of leading questions.
In psychology, there is such a technique, thanks to which you can eventually understand your purpose, tastes, environment, habits and addictions, and much more. Experts recommend taking a whole course of such classes, aimed at revealing inner qualities and personal growth.
But it is not always necessary for such a long time, you can start with the simplest questions and, by answering them, understand where to go next. Try to observe your surroundings. People find friends and loved ones for themselves, and if they are lucky, they will be close-minded companions who will always support and comfort. Well, or arrange a headwash when required. However, a person often clings to energy vampires - those who suggest that he is not good enough, or subjugate himself so much that they make him forget about the right to vote. It is better to remove such "well-wishers" from the list of friends.
Are you doing exactly what you want? A sincere answer may come as a surprise. There is a reasonable balance between "want" and "must" - such is life. But sometimes the side advantage is too great, but not everyone is capable of decisive measures, but even small nuances can be significant. Here you can solve the problem with the help of hobbies, new acquaintances, since vivid impressions will help maintain balance.
Alone with yourself should be comfortable, in this state you can evaluate yourself from the outside, reflect, laugh at the events of the day, indulge in memories, etc. The ability to be in harmony with oneself is not in vain so highly valued, it speaks of self-sufficiency and confidence. Therefore, if in moments of solitude you cannot part with your mobile phone, social networks or even a book, think about it. The ability to find harmony with your "I" will help you become stronger.
It is very important to understand how much you can trust yourself. As a rule, the answer is always yes, but it is worth a little thought, and a different opinion will sound: "Depending on the situation." Inability to keep secret information often speaks of self-doubt and a desire to attract increased attention. If you get exactly this answer, it is worth working on yourself and increasing your self-esteem.
You do not need to guess other people's ideas about you, you will not be nice to everyone. However, it is quite within the power of everyone to formulate qualities that will make them look positive in the eyes of others. It remains only to follow this!
