There is a so-called everyday kind of vampirism, when some bring others to "white heat" and experience after that unspeakable pleasure. It is important to recognize such a person in time and choose a method of behavior that is inconvenient for him - then he will instantly lag behind you.
You can recognize these people right away - they always express dissatisfaction with something, moreover loudly and demandingly, attracting the attention of as many people around as possible. This is a granny in line who doesn't like how slow the cashier is serving customers. This is a woman of Balzac's age on the bus, loudly discussing the topic "what kind of young people have gone today - no one will give way to an old man." This is a close person, tearing off her anger at you or a grandmother crying with resentment.
By the way, do not assume that we are victims of energy vampires and they constantly hunt us. Researchers in the field of energy informatics believe that each person in his life is himself the same thief of someone else's energy. The most common type of such vampirism is fear for children. When parents or grandparents are afraid for a child, they siphon energy from his aura in tons. A child can even get sick if the parents are afraid together, together, and even grandfather and grandmother are connected. It also happens that mom is afraid for the child, but dad is not. Then his mother begins to accuse him of not loving his child - this is also vampirism.
A friend who talks to you for hours on the phone or on Skype is also an energy vampire. After this communication, you have no strength, half of the work is not done, from this a feeling of guilt arises. And the friend is nothing - cheerful and cheerful. And when the recharge is over, she knows where to get the strength for her affairs. Old people pretending not to hear are also from this area. Especially when you notice that they hear and then not, depending on the interest in the topic of conversation. The neighbor who watches over you in the stairwell when you walk tired after work also wants to get her share of energy, dumping a bunch of negative news about her family on you. A boss who finds fault with trifles and peers vigilantly, as if waiting for you to begin to show dissatisfaction with his comments and get nervous because he is obviously inflating an elephant out of a fly.
There are many such examples, there is even a division of energy vampires by types: lunar type, solar and mixed. However, no matter how you classify - you have to live next to them and share your energy too. Sometimes they take almost a daily dose of energy, and then a person needs a very long time to recover.
A calm attitude towards them will help to defeat the energy vampire. What do these people want? Get a portion of the energy that you have, but for some reason they do not have it. As a rule, we are "vampires" by the same people, and we know all their techniques. However, we constantly fall for the same bait and do not realize that we need to defend ourselves against energy vampires. Having studied their "tricks", you will be ready to repel any attack and they will not get what they expected. And they will immediately leave you behind, go to look for other donors. Of course, this will not happen the first time, and they will come from that side, then from the other. Well what then? The set of techniques is not endless, and someday you will emerge victorious from this battle of characters.
A funny but effective technique called "so what?" Can help. For example, the boss says that you are late with the report and makes a stern remark to you, although you know that no department has yet submitted the report. Of course you apologize, but say to yourself: "So what?" He says that because of you he will get from the authorities. You again: "So what?" And so on until he runs out of arguments. Just try not to laugh, because if you're calm, the energy vampire's pushing looks really funny.
