After parting with a man, you realized that you made a mistake, and now you make plans for his return day and night? Winning your ex can be a daunting task, but if your heart tells you that he is the one, then it is definitely worth the risk.
Necessary
- faith
- Time
- Commitments
- Hope
Instructions
Step 1
Immediately after you broke up, send him a note (preferably a note - no emails, sms or messages on social networks) that you are happy that you did break up, and that you also thought about it. Then wish him happiness, health and other benefits. Then it will take you two to three weeks to conquer it again.
Step 2
The first week is very difficult - you will feel unhappy all the time, and this is exactly what you should not show and what you should not feel. Spend more time with your friends, try going to the gym to distract yourself.
Step 3
In the second week, you should start interacting more with new people. Go to parties and concerts, try to have fun. And all the while, avoid any contact with your ex. If you want to talk about a breakup, try discussing it with a close friend or keep yourself an anonymous diary where you can vent your feelings.
Step 4
The third week is a turning point in your relationship with your loved one. He will start to seriously wonder why you never got in touch. Therefore, most likely, he will begin to ask your friends about this, or he will firmly settle on your Vkontakte page or on Facebook, looking for reasons why you do not call him. Now get ready for him to get jealous.
Step 5
Try to spend more time with people, make dates, or just make new friends wherever you can. Wait some more time until your ex starts to be jealous of you in full force and comment on your photos, in which you are depicted with unknown men.
Step 6
After another week, try to casually call your ex and arrange a short, friendly lunch with him. Most importantly, make it appear as if your schedule does not have more than 30 minutes for this lunch. That being said, try your best to keep those 30 minutes fun. Flirt, joke, be confident.
Step 7
The final step in winning over your ex is a second date. 5-10 days after your short lunch together, call him and make an appointment for dinner (actually, this is a date, but don't tell him about it). During the date, try to act as if it is the first and as if you are not with your ex, but with a completely new person, and a new relationship awaits you. Try to behave the way you did during your real first date. If everything works out, he will be with you again.
