All people want to be happy, and everyone says that for happiness you need to find your calling. It is very difficult for some to find their calling, as they have a variety of obstacles, difficulties, problems on their way.
Most people are often constrained in their thoughts. Answering the question of what a person wants to do, a bunch of options among the usual areas in which millions of people are engaged begins to move in his head. This is an accountant, lawyer, doctor, teacher, and so on. Let go of your imagination, experiment with your skills. Get carried away with your favorite business, and then, perhaps, you will understand that this is your vocation, which brings a good income.
Fear that it is impossible to find your calling. It probably arises in childhood, when many people, such as parents, teachers at school and at the university, impose a certain framework on the child, name a specific list of significant professions. And everything that is behind this list, outside of it, is no longer a serious matter, but entertainment. It is worth getting out of this framework, not being afraid to do something new.
Lack of consistency. If a person cannot do something, they feel frustrated. Sometimes frustration really does signal that it's time to stop. It is important to take control of your life, to make a plan according to which you will act. If you constantly postpone planning until later, then there will be chaos in life.
Comparing yourself and others. Unfortunately, many people have a strong belief that being different from others is bad. In fact, being different from others makes a person special. Even if your vocation lies outside the generally accepted values, this does not mean at all that it is some kind of bad, and it should not be engaged. Never look at others, let everyone do what he likes, to which his soul lies.
