Admit it to yourself frankly, is your life going the way you once dreamed? If not, come to your senses! As long as you are alive, you have a chance. Few people think, but most often the reason for failure is that a person has not found his place in life, does not do what he was created for. Using a simple, practical way, try to open yourself up in a new way and start an interesting new life.
In your search for a vocation, you only need a few simple questions and the help of loved ones.
1. Self-assessment
Talk to yourself first. Choose a time when no one will distract you. Come to that very favorite place that inspires you. It can be anything you want - a picturesque park, a quiet street, a cozy cafe. Unplug your cell phone and focus on yourself. Watch your life like a film strip and honestly answer the following questions:
As you can see, your weaknesses and failures are completely irrelevant. Concentrate on what you do easily and with pleasure, what is your strength and benefits for the world around you.
2. Evaluation from the outside
Think about what the success of a person depends on? Is it only because he managed to do something very well. Most probably not. A person truly feels his success only when his achievements are recognized by the environment, that is, by other people. That is why, when looking for a vocation, it is extremely important to know the perspective of you from the outside.
First, I mean the opinion of the closest people who know you well (parents, husband / wife, brothers / sisters, close friends). And secondly, select a few acquaintances with whom you communicate a lot due to life circumstances, and whose point of view you value (colleagues at work, fellow students, teachers). Their answers can be interesting too. So you need to ask these people the same questions.
3. Analysis of answers
Rest assured, the process will be very fun. Perhaps some answers will seem unexpected, but among them you will surely find something in common. Here lies the key to unraveling your calling.
