Weakness attracts strength. A strong man is attracted to a weak woman. With her, he feels like a real macho - cool, successful, omnipotent. But how can a woman remain weak in a world that recognizes only strength, toughness, and domination? Where decisive, grasping, assertive people succeed. How? Easily! Otherwise, a woman would not be a woman. There are several reliable and proven techniques.
Instructions
Step 1
Let yourself be helpless. At least once a day. This refers to helplessness that requires outside intervention. Of course, it is better if it is a man. Do you know how to fix a leaking tap or hammer in a nail yourself? Is it easy for you to sign contracts and negotiate? Wonderful. But if you at least occasionally demonstrate your helplessness (at a convenient time and at a suitable time, of course), then everyone will be amazed to see in you an element of fragile femininity. This will give you a special charm that is very much appreciated by the stronger sex.
Step 2
Learn to ask for help. Of course, for self-sufficient ladies, even this very thought is disgusting. Yes, they would rather gnaw the earth, but they will not sink to such humiliation. And in vain. This little trick is something to be aware of, even if you are a super-wumen. After all, asking for help, you indirectly declare your own imperfection, which means you are a living person, and it is at this moment that a small weak woman peeps through your armor. This cannot but touch the man. This elevates him, inspires him to feats. And now he is already your slave. The existence of a certain psychological attraction to someone who has been helped at least once is known.
Step 3
Stop taking the daily exam for the image of the ideal and perfection. It is impossible to be perfect in everything. Allow yourself to relax. Sit back, be lazy. Forget for a while about that clear schedule that your life is squeezed into. By the way, analyze it, this graph: is there a place for love in it? Until your man sees that you are ready to give him most of your time, you will not be in demand. Experience and feel (at least for a short time) your need for another person. Allow yourself to simply live, breaking free from an endless circle of worries. Do not be afraid to seem weak, believe me - a woman only benefits from this.
Step 4
Change the role. You have already been self-sufficient and strong and you know what it is. Now try on the image of a simple and weak woman, vulnerable and helpless. Remove the iron shell. An actress is hiding in every woman, so it will not be difficult to do this for a while. You will see how many will reach out to you in order to protect, protect, cover with themselves, and lend a shoulder. The game is worth the candle. Go for it.
