Knowing the weaknesses of others is useful for three reasons. First, so as not to impose on the neighbor a burden that he is not ready to bear. Secondly, to develop a training program and bring a person to a new level. Third, to understand strengths that are opposite to weaknesses.
Instructions
Step 1
Prepare informative, interestingly presented information from different areas of life. These can be articles, examples, comparisons, facts, etc. The form of data presentation does not matter, but it would be nice to use video. Make sure that the information is written or presented in a language understandable to a person, at his intellectual level.
Step 2
Publish the found materials on sites or services where the person being researched is. It is important that he feels comfortable there and is an active participant. Ideally, post the data on a forum or similar site where attendees can share their views.
Step 3
Pay attention to what the person is reacting to. Some information will not affect him, but he will want to talk about something.
Step 4
Find and publish controversial materials on the topic of interest to the person, identified in the third step. Someone's harsh judgment, different from the generally accepted one, will do. It will be good if the discussion unfolds. You yourself can provoke it.
Step 5
Record your emotional response. When people start to argue, sometimes they lose control of themselves. Weaknesses of character are exposed, principles and beliefs become visible, which in normal circumstances are carefully hidden from others. By simple observation, you can learn a lot about a person.
Step 6
Use another way to detect weaknesses - the principle of "a friend in need". Simulate a situation when other people find themselves next to the subject in a weak, defenseless state, in need. The reaction will show whether the person wants to assert themselves, withdraw, or help.
Step 7
Come up with tests of poverty and wealth, the opportunity to take someone else's, etc.
