You have probably heard more than once how someone was given such a characteristic - "difficult" or "difficult" character. Hearing this, without even knowing any examples, everyone understands what it means. It is difficult and difficult to communicate with such a person, it is uncomfortable with him, since it is difficult to predict his thoughts and actions. Very often, this character is a manifestation of mental disorders and nervous disorders.
Complex character is a medical problem
The notorious "transitional age" is also characterized by a change in the character of a teenager not for the better. During this period, most of them have just such a character - complex and difficult. But, when the hormonal adjustment ends, the guy or the girl again becomes quite adequate, and the epithets that others describe them no longer include these definitions. Hormonal changes, the cause of menopausal changes, are also often accompanied by behavioral changes and character deterioration. But these are all temporary phenomena. There are people whose character is "difficult" for others throughout their lives.
People with complex temperaments tend to have strong energy, creativity and the ability to make non-standard decisions, which, in some cases, makes them good workers.
This behavior is a psychopathic disorder and, most often, it is a hereditary disease and one of the parents of this person also had a difficult nature. A child who, from childhood, took such manifestations for granted, will also not learn to restrain himself emotionally. But this is not only a pedagogical problem, but also a medical one. Neuropathologists say that a difficult character is a consequence of a small dysfunction of the brain. An ordinary person has special mirror neurons in his cortex that help him understand the feelings of the people around him and predict their behavior and reactions. As a result, a person can easily predict what will be pleasant to others and what may hurt them. According to one of the medical theories, people with a complex character, or, more simply, psychopaths, have a deficiency of mirror neurons, especially in the frontal lobes of the brain.
Take the difficult nature of your partner for granted and do not try to remake him, just take this into account in your daily life.
Complex manifestations
The inability and unwillingness to understand the feelings of other people makes the owners of a complex character sociopaths, they are not constrained by generally accepted norms of behavior. Therefore, it seems to them that they can indulge in whatever they want: violate moral principles, arrange public tantrums and not control attacks of anger or irritation. They can make a scandal in the family or at work because of some nonsense and then, when the others are unsettled and drink Corvalol, they are completely sincerely surprised - what did they say or did? It is difficult to expect sympathy from a person with a complex character, moving towards his goal, he does not recognize moral barriers, so you should not expect from him adequate, from your point of view, behavior.
