The desire to be the best in everything is not narcissism and naivety, because you do not consider yourself the best, you want to become that way. It shows your potential and desire to work on yourself - the right approach of a strong, energetic and creative person.
Instructions
Step 1
Define goals. It is impossible to be the best in everything that exists in the world, and you understand this, so you want to reach the top only in those areas that are interesting and important to you. List them and write them down, and also indicate why you settled on them. Motivation plays a big role in setting goals: exercise to improve health and shape, not to buy new sneakers. If you are clear about the result of your activity, you will not quit your job halfway and become the best in the chosen business.
Step 2
Make a plan for each goal separately. To do this, study the area in which you want to succeed: in what ways you can achieve the result and what resources will be needed. When you know exactly what to do, start drawing up a plan: it is advisable to first sketch it out in general terms, breaking down into several large steps, and then go deeper and structure them. Do not plan what you cannot accomplish. For example, for better mastering of the French language, you need to go to France to study it, but if you do not have the opportunity, then there should not be such an item in the plan.
Step 3
Do not spray. You want to be the best in several areas, but you need to competently approach when it is better to combine them, and when to pay attention to only one goal: you can learn a language and work on your appearance, but it is not recommended to study two languages at the same time. Take small steps to the goal, and then you will be able to act in several directions and not overexert yourself. Do not expect a quick result - remember, working on yourself takes a lot of time, effort and patience, so you will not be able to become the best in everything urgently.
Step 4
Follow the plan. Identify your highest priority goals and start moving towards them. Evaluate which results are the most time-consuming and include small steps early in the implementation of the plan. Select in a separate category those areas that relate to personal life, everyday life, appearance, nutrition, health, etc., and do them every day - this should become a habit, so you cannot put them on the back burner.
