Who of us has never been in a difficult situation at least once in our life? There are practically no such people. Life is such that it is very difficult to constantly be in well-being, not to face from time to time, even with minor difficulties. Not everything in this life depends on us, but this is how we perceive life and everything that it presents to us, be it difficulties, joys, experiences, trials, we can program for ourselves.
Instructions
Step 1
There are two main levels at which you can perceive a difficult situation. The traditional level is when you come to terms with the fact that you are faced with a problem, admit it as such, and as a result, your soul is heavy. And the second is accepting the situation as a call to action and changing this undesirable situation.
Step 2
So, in order to move away from the traditional view of any difficult situation, do not recognize it as difficult. Do not say these words to yourself, even in your thoughts. Otherwise, it will be almost impossible to cope with it.
Step 3
Don't try to find compromises. Any compromise is just a waste of time, because this is not exactly what you want.
Step 4
If you find yourself in a difficult situation, try to understand how you really feel and what your goal in life is at the moment. Any difficult situation is an impetus to the thought process. Think of it not as a problem, but as a hint to resolve the current situation and try to implement it.
Step 5
Follow the steps that the situation prompts you, and this will not only lead you to the fulfillment of your desires, but also help in the future to treat similar situations differently, which others would call difficult. Such situations for you in the future will continue to serve as an impetus for solving existing life problems, and you will be happy to perceive them, because it is they that bring clarity of thoughts, adding adrenaline, excitement, desire to solve the problem.
Step 6
Try to master a mechanism that will help you transform difficult situations into your desires, into your dreams. At first it will not be easy, not everyone simply manages to break the perception of the situation that has developed over the years. However, do not give up - the more difficult situations you meet on your way and try to solve in the second, not the first, traditional way, the faster you will develop the skill of this new perception. And after a while, you yourself will understand that it is much more profitable for yourself not to give up in front of difficulties, but to develop and solve problems, moving to the next level of personal development.
