Quite often, a few days or weeks before the wedding, the future bride begins to be tormented by doubts whether she made the right choice, deciding to go down the aisle. This is a common phenomenon, which is to blame for a number of reasons.
The main reasons for doubt
The main reason for insecurity is the fear of starting a new life full of worries and responsibilities. If you have not previously lived in the same area, have not cooked breakfast together and have not done the cleaning, it is quite logical that the upcoming acquisition of the status of a hostess wife may cast negative thoughts on you.
It happens that a woman doubts her partner, she is afraid that he will not cope with the role of the breadwinner, breadwinner of the family. Before the wedding, this issue can be aggravated against the background of significant waste. Questions will begin to arise in my head: "What are we going to live for?" or "How to provide for a baby who will be born soon?"
Doubts before the most important day in your life can also form due to the stress of the pre-holiday rush. All newlyweds know that a wedding is not only a sea of positive emotions, but also hard work. Long preparation for the celebration takes strength, causes irritability, which, in turn, can inspire thoughts "Why do you need all this at all?"
Pull yourself together, the pre-holiday bustle will end, and a happy family life awaits you ahead.
But the worst thing is when the doubts lie in the man himself. If a woman is not sure of her feelings, she begins to torment herself, look for flaws in a partner, think about an imminent separation after the wedding, read articles with similar problems on the forums, thereby turning herself into a bundle of nerves.
How to get rid of negativity?
So, it's totally okay to hesitate before getting married, and most girls go through it. What to do in this situation? First, it is necessary to reflect on the fact that ordinary household chores do not make family life more dull. The most excellent option is the distribution of obligations, for example, for you - cooking, on it - garbage collection. Everything is trite and simple.
Secondly, think about the fact that a happy family life is just around the corner, so it is better not to waste energy on trifles, such as failing to order a cafe, buying the most expensive dress, and so on. If you think that a man will not be able to act as a breadwinner - remember, everything depends only on you. By properly coordinating your partner, you will never feel the need.
Mary Todd, wife of Abraham Lincoln, when she married him, did not know that he would be a national hero of the American people!
A woman should be wise, praise her husband even in case of failure and help him in everything. Well, if you doubt the choice of a person, of course, you should think about whether it is worth marrying him.
