Have you ever met a person who would be constantly busy with his appearance and reputation? Or maybe this person is you yourself? The sooner you start to get rid of your own self-doubt, the brighter your life will become.
Instructions
Step 1
Always keep in mind that passers-by will only see you for a few seconds. If you are very complex about your appearance, keep in mind that those people who meet you all day on the subway, on the street, in a cafe do not care about you. They may, of course, pay attention to your "funny" skirt, hairstyle, handbag, etc., but the likelihood that they will remember her all their lives and make fun of you is negligible.
Step 2
To verify this, try doing something that is not typical of your lifestyle and behavior. As a rule, only close people or those who know you well react to such actions. And all the rest of the people around it will not care. People are too busy with their day to day problems to laugh at you all day, month, or year. After all, this is how long you cannot forget someone's sidelong glance in a tram or cafe.
Step 3
Love yourself. If you are afraid of every opinion, it speaks of low self-esteem. Do you like your clothes, occupation, interests? If all this does not threaten your health, safety of other people and does not contradict the legislation, it takes place. Do you want to be a librarian and your friends and spouse are pushing for an entrepreneurial career? Listen to your heart, not other people's stereotypes about prestige and social status.
Step 4
Focus on your best qualities. This will make a charming and interesting person out of an insecure person. Work on yourself every day, praise yourself for even small successes. And don't forget to smile. Remember that there are millions of people around you who live within the framework of imposed stereotypes. And if someone tries to stab you with a look or a word, most likely, he wants to establish himself at your expense. In this case, in response, apply a sense of humor or mentally take pity on the notorious bully, and then completely forget about what happened.
