“We choose, we are chosen, as it often does not coincide …” - the words of this old song very accurately convey the meaning of unrequited love. It didn’t coincide, but how can you soothe a dull pain in your heart, how to survive unrequited love?
Instructions
Step 1
If such a misfortune befell you, do not despair: everything passes and this will pass. Another thing is that one cannot do without suffering, but it is possible and necessary to alleviate them. If there is no way to completely stop seeing each other (for example, if you are classmates, fellow students or work colleagues), then at least as much as possible limit communication with the object of your unrequited love. Playing in public, they say, it costs you nothing to be just friends, it will only further inflame the emotional wound, and the possible news that your passion has a second half will only aggravate the situation.
Step 2
Limit contacts with mutual acquaintances. Of course, nothing "warms" the soul so much as sitting in the kitchen with mutual friends over a cup of tea or something stronger and memories of that happy time when you were together. Your distressing state may be unpleasant for your acquaintances, who may continue to treat you and your ex in the same way. Of course, you shouldn't refuse to communicate at all, just explain to your friends that it will be useful for you to be alone for a while and this will not affect your friendships at all.
Step 3
A trip somewhere beautiful and hot will help to survive unrequited love. For example, to the sea. Lazing in the rays of the warm sun, against your will, you will be distracted from gloomy thoughts. The journey itself can bring new acquaintances. However, do not rush to start new novels: you cannot knock out a wedge with a wedge, but you can more than fill new cones.
Step 4
Engage yourself in some new and responsible business: start work on a new project, sign up for dances, be among interesting people, participate in contests and quizzes. In a word, surround yourself with dynamics so that there is no time to be bored and suffer. They say that time heals. But, in order to enhance the effect of treatment, do not neglect the simple rules of "recovery".
