Unrequited love. Who didn't have it? The overwhelming majority of people are familiar with this twilight state of consciousness, when it seems that you are wandering along a gray tunnel, at the end of which, instead of the notorious light, there is an object of love and the most important person in the world. But what if the beloved does not want to meet halfway, deliberately ignoring all the romantic impulses of the person in love with him?
Instructions
Step 1
Popular wisdom says that, they say, you cannot become cute. This means that you have to somehow get rid of the notorious love (and you can be sure that it is love, and not love). Like a splinter.
Stage one is to understand that the object of falling in love does not have any feelings for you. You need to accept the situation as it is, ceasing to deceive yourself with fairy tales such as: "He also feels something, but is afraid (shy, cautious) to say or make it clear about his feelings." Just accept it and it will instantly feel better.
Step 2
Stage two. Try to isolate yourself from his society. Don't hurt fresh wounds. Do not try to find out from mutual friends how he lives, what he breathes and what he does.
Stop living his life and start living yours. Get chinchillas, come up with a hobby that gives you positive emotions. Finally, start writing poetry, paintings, or sentimental essays. They say that some famous poets could not create without being in love (often unrequited). Most importantly, you shouldn't use rhymes like "love is blood" - it's vulgar.
Step 3
Stage three. Take a piece of paper and try to take an open-minded look at the object of your love. Write down all of his qualities in sequence, without giving them an assessment. At this moment, you will probably understand how idealized your chosen one is. Falling in love, no longer fueled by illusions, will gradually fade away.
