It's no secret that pregnancy changes a woman. These changes are painful not only for herself, but also for the spouse, who often turns out to be not ready for such a turn of events. In this situation, not only the expectant mother, but also the future father should prepare for the appearance of the baby.
Instructions
Step 1
Of course, a man, having learned the news about future fatherhood, to put it mildly, panics. Responsibility puts pressure on him as the father of the family, and the future dad is trying in every possible way to strengthen his position in the family. Some grow beards, start repairs, try to change jobs. Of course, change is needed. The financial situation in the family will change (mommy will leave work for an indefinite period), the way of life will radically rebuild itself for the baby.
Step 2
One of the most common mistakes is the desire of future fathers to be like mothers. This is not true. Dads interact with the baby in a completely different way and complement, rather than “insure” the young mother. Already at the 4th week of life, the baby actively reacts to the appearance of his father and understands who is mom and who is dad. He recognizes dad, makes faces, bends, shows interest in playing with dad.
Step 3
Despite the fact that in most European countries the participation of the father in childbirth and classes for pregnant women has already become very popular, it is still very often that future dads find themselves in complete information isolation during the pregnancy of their beloved. In this situation, support is needed not only for a pregnant woman, but also for a confused man.
Step 4
First of all, spouses need to strive to talk about the future child as often as possible, to be interested in the phases of fetal development together, to study literature for pregnant women (this is much more exciting than it seems at first glance).
Step 5
Secondly, it is necessary to ignore each other's nervousness, not focusing on the fact that one of the partners is doing something wrong, behaving too actively or passively. Support each other in this difficult situation.
Step 6
Most importantly, dad needs to decide what role he is ready to play in raising a baby? What household chores are you ready to take on? What will he strive for after the appearance of a son or daughter, and what example will he show the child?
Step 7
In general, the expectation of a happy fatherhood is the most appropriate period in order to strengthen marital bonds, better understand your partner and reconsider your outlook on life.
