The world around us is full of dangers. Modern man encounters them at every step, many of them are already so familiar that they are not even recognized as dangers. What rules and principles should be followed to make life safer?
Instructions
Step 1
Life safety consists of two main components - psychological safety and physical safety. Moreover, the first strongly influences the second. Squeezed, notorious, afraid of everything, a person involuntarily attracts dangers to himself. Why? Because his energy can be felt by the people around him. In nature, predators are well aware of the "smell of fear" emanating from the prey. But there are predators among people, they can easily calculate a potential victim by the waves of fear emanating from it.
Step 2
Therefore, the very first step in ensuring safety is to get rid of the victim complex. Feel like a hunter, cultivate a sense of strength. If you can do this, the number of potential dangers will dramatically decrease - people around you will subconsciously feel your strength and be afraid to contact you.
Step 3
Another factor of psychological safety is the ability to defend themselves during communication. Many people are energy vampires - they want to talk to you, throw out their troubles, make you sympathize with them. Having said this, such a person feels better. On the contrary, you will feel tired because you have lost some of your energy. Cut off such conversations on any convenient pretext.
Step 4
The second widespread variant of energy vampirism is associated with the “untwisting” of a person into an emotional outburst. There are many concrete ways - to infringe upon a person's pride, his pride, to make him worry and worry. Often this happens in a family or just between loved ones. A person makes scenes, throws tantrums, not because there is some real reason for this, but because of energy hunger. He is not aware of his actions, but on a subconscious level he feels that he gets better when he manages to upset, bring his “soul mate” to tears.
Step 5
Remember: as long as you are "led" to such tantrums, they will not stop. Conversely, stop reacting to them emotionally and they will disappear. Do not encourage vampirism - on the contrary, help your loved one get rid of him, switch him to other sources of power. This can be walking in the fresh air, reading spiritual literature, going to church, and much more.
Step 6
Learning to say no is very important. Many people cannot refuse someone, even if the request is clearly not pleasant to them, or even harmful. Kindness and sensitivity are good qualities, but being able to say no when appropriate is also very important. Weak people "revolve" around the strong, fulfill their whims - this is one of the laws of society. Try to say “no” clearly at least once, and in practice you will feel how your energy level will rise sharply. And all because you will cease to follow the lead of another person.
Step 7
Physical safety also plays an important role. There is no need to be afraid of everything, but the preparedness for the dangers must be constantly present. The problem for most people is that they consider certain territories to be safe, while in reality this is just an illusion. Are you crossing the road at a permitting traffic light - is it safe? Yes, provided that one of the drivers does not pass a red light. When crossing the street, always look around - this is the state of readiness.
Step 8
You can read about some specific ways to improve security in the relevant literature. You will be advised to strengthen the front doors and not ride in the elevator with strangers, beware of icicles, wear self-defense, etc. etc. But all this is secondary. The basis of your safety is in your mind. By getting rid of fears, learning not to be led by other people, being able to foresee possible troubles, you can live happily ever after.
