As a magician from an ordinary miracle said: “The story must be finished. It must have an end. " Any stage of life ends sooner or later. You can cite a lot of little things that people put at the forefront of their lives, or, conversely, laugh at it. Suffice it to recall the story when it was written on the old car: "Five minutes of shame, and you are at the dacha."
Some women cannot go out without makeup or with tangled hair. Many cliches are imposed by society and the media. A person already perceives this style of behavior as his own, but in fact he was instilled in him. Therefore, an unexpected situation that an individual cannot cope with or a violation of small aspects of his lifestyle becomes a problem. A person inflates it and can perceive it quite dramatically.
How to act if a situation arises in which discomfort is felt, here we do not mean serious problems associated with a protracted trial, large losses, ordinary situations are meant.
No understanding with colleagues? Better to leave your jokes for a more suitable company. It is advisable to keep silent once again and not enter into a frank conversation, especially not to talk about personal problems. To resort to frankness only when necessary, to take time off from the authorities for family reasons.
Usually, getting into unpleasant situations, a person uses several models of behavior. All of them are competent and depend on the nuances:
- is justified;
- argues;
- reacts detachedly or pretends;
- attacks.
Often people themselves provoke the emergence of a situation, thinking that they are poorly perceived, although there is no real reason for this. Such individuals often use the guidance that offense is the best defense. Self-control is not always easy to learn, but it is possible.
