We admire the rose and do not concentrate on the thorns. Likewise, you can enjoy life without focusing on problems, because life is not only about problems. In order not to get hurt by a bouquet of roses, the thorns break off. Likewise, life's problems require solutions.
Instructions
Step 1
Be glad there are problems. This recommendation may sound ridiculous. How can you rejoice when life is hard? But think about just one fact - the highest paid people in the world are the people who can solve the most difficult problems. They first learned to solve their own personal problems, and then they began to solve the problems of other people. You have great prospects before you. The athlete will have to solve many problems before he ascends the champion podium. A musician needs to overcome pain in his fingers by mastering playing the guitar. There are many such examples. And therefore, be glad that you have problems. You will learn to do things that are not available to other people. The more difficult your problems are, the more harvest you can reap in life for yourself and others.
Step 2
Learn problem-solving techniques. You are not the first to go this way. Someone once solved similar problems, and then shared their experience in books. Look for these books, read as much as possible. There is literature on solving problems in the field of human relations. There are books on solving problems in finance. There are techniques for a general approach to solving various problems. Read, take notes, reflect, practice different methods. Something is right for your situation.
Step 3
Solve problems. Make it your goal to find a solution. See yourself as a leader, commander, trailblazer, and scout. You will change a lot as a result of this attitude towards yourself.
