Parting with a loved one, who, as it seemed, would never leave, loss of work, death of loved ones … There are many reasons to start life from scratch. Many are afraid to do this, cling to the past, and lose precious time, and perhaps the most precious thing there is - the present.
Instructions
Step 1
It makes sense to think about how to start life from a new leaf only if you are firmly convinced that you do not want to have anything to do with the past. When a person is not ready to change, does not feel a spiritual and psychological need for this, he will not be able to do this, even if he tries. It happens that it seems to a person that he should start a new life, and after a couple of days he calms down and continues to live the same way as before.
Step 2
Think about what was most important in your past life. Remember that you need to get rid of exactly what you least want, or rather, what is most difficult to give up. Are you afraid of losing your job? Write a letter of resignation. Shuddering at the thought of having to move? Sell your apartment and move away from your hometown. To start a new life, you need to part with the past, to become free.
Step 3
Don't think about the future - you are not ready for it yet. Know that until you do away with the legacy of the past, your plans for the future will be a mirror image of your past life. Take your time, let events take their course. Just do not think that you can go with the flow: such tactics, as a rule, do not lead to good. Act decisively, but deal with problems as they arise.
Step 4
Do something new for yourself. If you were a school teacher in the past, then take a trip along the mountain rivers. Test yourself in unfamiliar, unfamiliar conditions. This will help you find out what you want from life, how you want to see your future.
Step 5
Do not be afraid, and do not allow yourself to doubt. Try not to listen to the advice of friends and acquaintances, do not pay attention to difficulties. You can overcome any obstacles, if, of course, you want to. Remember, a person must forge his own happiness, and no one will take the decisive step for him. Step into a new life.
