The formation of human perception of the world took place for many millennia. The behavior of men and women made them different creatures, biologically they belong to the same species, but think and speak differently. Men are more laconic and consistent, they think first, then speak. Women, on the other hand, prefer to reason during a conversation, so they say a lot of words. You can find a common language if you listen to what the other is saying.
Instructions
Step 1
Historically, the man was a protector and breadwinner, he had to hunt for many hours, where silence and attention are needed. Women, on the other hand, raised children, created comfort, were in a constant environment, where they communicated and shared their experiences. The habit of talking was developed: women did it all the time, men rarely and to the point.
Step 2
In ancient times, the price of a word was also formed. If a man said something, then they were obliged to obey him. The whole family depended on him, could not argue. But this imposed a great responsibility, if he said, then it is invariable, it means that one cannot be mistaken. And this also reduced the amount of what was said in order to avoid oversights or inaccuracies. The woman had to talk a lot in order to teach children all the necessary skills.
Step 3
Much has changed today, but as before, the conversation seems to be conducted in different languages. A woman speaks an average of 20 thousand words per day. At the same time, she can speak, think and do something at the same time. The man speaks only 7 thousand words, but at the same time he only narrates, not doing other things. But he gives facts and arguments, gives precise instructions, offers solutions. The female stream of words is like an avalanche, a lot of ideas are simply broadcast into the world, and in the process of pronouncing, the most correct option of actions suddenly appears.
Step 4
A man cannot do several things at the same time. It is difficult for him to focus on two or three things at once. If he listens, he does only that. But it is important for him to receive information on the merits, and not the general flow. If this does not happen, he switches to another occupation, and simply does not notice the spoken words. The woman does not understand why he does not hear or do what she asks. She may not be aware of the peculiarities of thinking.
Step 5
The lady needs to speak out, and if she sits at home, if she doesn't communicate much, it becomes a problem. When a husband comes home from work, he is suddenly confronted with a huge number of words that he cannot perceive. It is enough for the first 10-15 minutes, when the spouse only mentions some facts, by the time she starts to come up with solutions to situations, he is already busy with other things. And it seems that he is not listening, and this causes complaints and resentments.
Step 6
To find a common language easier, you need to understand each other. It is better for women to talk with their friends, reach the necessary conclusions and provide their husband with only the results of all dialogues for the day, in a compact and structured manner. Men, on the other hand, should say a little more so that their beloved feels his support, does not perceive the silence as coldness.
