Women are often saddened by the fact that men do not always listen to them. Why are men often not attentive listeners when women talk about things that are important to them, and how can this situation be changed?
It's all about the peculiarities of the perception and presentation of information by a man and a woman. For men, the specifics of the problem are important. Women, on the other hand, do not ignore the emotional aspects of events. It is easier for men to listen when bare facts are presented. Women don't understand how details can be neglected. And these details are not important for men. It turns out that men sometimes become simply not interested in listening to women. So they stop doing it. Women can do several things at the same time. Men with this are worse, so they cannot carefully perceive information when they are busy with some business or pondering a serious question. As a result, men do not listen to women if they start telling them something at the wrong time. Since women are naturally more talkative than men, sometimes they talk too much, and the man stops taking in all the information. This is, one might say, his defensive reaction. There is also scientific evidence that it is more difficult for men to perceive female voices than male voices. Information about this was published by the international magazine NeuroImage. It presented the results of research conducted by the University of Sheffield in northern England. Research has shown that the complex range of a woman's voice requires a more active male brain. Now men have the right to expect a more condescending attitude from women if they listen to something again, but anyway, when it turns out that a man does not remember what was said just yesterday, it is insulting, outrageous and can even lead to a quarrel. To avoid this, men should not nod, thinking about their own and repeating “okay, dear,” “yes, darling,” but honestly admit that if now is not the right moment, they are busy and cannot adequately hear. Women should choose more. a good time to discuss something important with a man, you should, as always, be wiser. Think, maybe a new outfit or office gossip is better to discuss with a friend? Believe me, in these questions she will be a more grateful listener. Men are ready to discuss important issues. They listen to women when they themselves are interested in it, and when women do not load their story with unnecessary, in the opinion of men, and uninteresting details to them.
