Women in communication with the opposite sex try to be correct and ethical, gently convey information to them, not wanting to offend. However, men do not understand the hints. Because of this, numerous conflicts and discords arise between partners.
Women in communication with men are not used to speaking directly, because the main tool of the fair sex is seduction, a sweet smile, female tricks and hints. Ladies understand each other perfectly, sometimes even being surprised at the fact how sensitively they can react to invisible hints of a friend. But men often have different priorities, but their behavior has a genetic basis.
Why Men Don't Take Hints
Male thinking differs from female thinking due to the enormous historical experience that ancient hunters received many millennia ago. In those days, when there could not yet be any hints of speech, the foundations of the male perception of the world were already being laid. The representative of the sterner sex was busy most of his time finding food for his family - hunting wild animals. This activity was extremely dangerous, it required great endurance and concentration. The main thing in it was one big goal - a mammoth, a bison, a bull, that is, any large animal. The male brain has since become accustomed to seeing one big goal and striving for its satisfaction. No amount of interference, hindrance, or hint can switch his brain to something else.
Women, on the other hand, were gatherers. Their task was to see at once as many small targets as possible - fruits, berries, herbs, nuts. Therefore, they were forced to notice everything, to grasp the information on the fly. And today girls can draw conclusions on the partner's unnoticeable mood, his awkwardly thrown word, atypical actions for him.
The behavior of modern man has changed little since then. And today men see concrete big goals in front of them: they need to get enough, relax, have fun, get the job done. For women with their heightened emotional background and fragmentation of attention, everything is different: the husband did not thank for the dinner, did not understand the hint about washing dishes and helping around the house - this is a reason for resentment.
How to behave with men
A woman should be wiser. Often she knows that the man does not understand the hints, but still continues to do them, wondering why the partner does not hear her. There is nothing surprising in this, a man needs to say everything directly. Moreover, not when the negative has already accumulated and all unspoken reproaches fall from the tongue in order to ignite a big quarrel, but right away. The husband and lover will not be offended by a direct request, they will immediately understand it and try to fulfill it. For both a woman and a man, this state of affairs will be beneficial, because timely priorities, requests and responsibilities will help keep peace in a relationship.
