Popular people easily make acquaintances and quickly become the life of the company. They know how to please and do not remain alone, unless they themselves want to. Those who by nature are not able to achieve popularity without much difficulty can work on themselves and develop the necessary qualities.
Instructions
Step 1
Be self-sufficient and value yourself. It's not about pride and arrogance - they only push people away. You just need to combine self-satisfaction with a constant desire for self-improvement. Trying to please all people, without exception, is pointless: you will not only fail to achieve your goal, but also lower your self-esteem. If you want to become popular, learn to love yourself and get used to the idea that you will have ill-wishers too.
Step 2
Exude optimism. This attracts people, moreover, funny people will see you as "their boyfriend", and pessimists - a person who can solve problems and provide assistance in any situation. Wit and charming smile conquer. But be careful not to become a jester who makes fun of himself. Reinforce your sense of humor and healthy optimism with self-confidence.
Step 3
Be interesting. People may be attracted by your knowledge, personality traits, worldview, etc., so the line of behavior should be chosen depending on the preferences of your "target audience". Your opinion should be as valuable and interesting as your advice. Learn to maintain a conversation, look for an approach to each person you communicate with, and people will be drawn to you. Be in public more often so that you are not forgotten.
Step 4
Serve yourself right. Until no one knows how interesting and wonderful person you are, you will not be able to achieve popularity. Be brave, meet and communicate with people, do not be afraid to offer your help if necessary, demonstrate your talents. The main thing is to radiate confidence and know that you are worthy of the love and respect of others.
Step 5
Be yourself. Pretending is annoying and repulsive - the more natural you are, the better. You do not need to try to please people with whom you have nothing in common, and even more so those who are unpleasant to you. Learn to choose the right environment and find people with similar interests and preferences so that you don't have to constantly pretend and play someone else's role.
