It happens that a person suffers from a lack of communication with interesting people. But you should not see the reason for social isolation solely in those around you. Lack of friends can be the result of some bad habits and personality traits that you can overcome by working on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want people to love you, first love them yourself. If you are a misanthrope, believe me, your position will not be a secret to others. Contempt towards people, arrogance and critical attitude towards others will leave you without real friends and good acquaintances. Each person has their own merits and invaluable life experience. Anyone you know has a lot to learn. Don't neglect others.
Step 2
Take it for granted that your social circle should change with you. Some people suffer from not being as close to classmates as they did when they were young, and they become obsessed with the problem of distancing themselves from old friends. It is natural that after school you choose different paths, develop differently and acquire different interests. Don't cling to the past, open up to meet new people.
Step 3
Remember, in order to please a person, you have to work hard. No one is obliged to love you just because you are an intelligent, well-read, kind and respectable person. You also need to present yourself correctly. Try to find an approach to each person, learn to focus on the merits of others, try not to get into fierce arguments on minor occasions. Show yourself as a pleasant, easy-going person, and people will be drawn to you.
Step 4
A neat appearance and polite demeanor are also important when communicating. Look so that you would like to continue acquaintance. This also applies to facial expressions. It happens that a rather sweet, sociable person puts on a mask of neglect and inaccessibility. It repels others. Having a good looks will help you expand your circle of acquaintances.
