Many want to become calm and balanced, but few people know the universal formula of how this can be achieved, and therefore not everyone succeeds in achieving their goal. What is it, the formula for competent behavior? What are the first steps in self-control?
An expressive person is not considered bad in our society. A little talkative is not a negative quality for a person. But the main thing is to find the ability to carefully listen to the interlocutor with whom the conversation is being conducted.
There is such a situation (for example, at a meeting, in the classroom, at the workplace) when you just need to behave decently, calmly.
By learning to behave in a balanced way, you can thus gain the respect of the people around you. This will be beneficial as people will understand that you are interested in what they are talking to you about.
In order to be able to understand where and how you need to behave, you must first of all work on your behavior while communicating with people and change your manners.
If necessary, you will need to change something in your lifestyle in order to be quieter.
Here are some simple guidelines that will help you achieve your desired goal - how to become a balanced person in conversations with other people.
1. Before you do something, you need to think carefully.
Balanced people are less emotional, they weigh their actions in detail, think over their every step before taking it. These people do not like haste, unnecessary fuss, think over their every word, knowing that a correctly chosen phrase is the key to success in all matters.
2. Strive to create the impression of an honest and decent person.
It is much easier to talk with people who are calm than with a screaming and assertive person.
Quiet interlocutors are restrained, while they retain an imperturbable face, they do not strive to be the main character of the dialogue. This is why calm people seem to us to be decent, as opposed to impulsive people, although in reality this may not be the case at all. When talking to people, keep your head straight, do not tilt it to look at others. Make yourself comfortable, imagine that you are alone in this room.
3. Try to be balanced and discreet.
Thanks to the ability to be restrained, a person can thus improve the situation in a conversation, thereby giving others an opportunity to calm down and transfer the course of the conversation into a calm channel. In the meantime, while everyone is in confusion, you will give the impression of a reasonable person. And since everyone is used to seeing you reserved, people will start listening to what you are talking about.
The ability to behave correctly in society will help you climb the career ladder, gain trust from others in yourself, and gain authority.
Learn to speak as little as possible, essentially keep promises, and the people around you will start to respect you.
