You should not pretend to be someone when you can present your own qualities from the advantageous side. Don't be afraid to be yourself. Open up to others and they will love your true nature.
How to be yourself
The fact that girls seek to remake themselves, to pretend to be someone else, is partly to blame for society. In society, certain standards of female beauty and behavior have been adopted. Those representatives of the fair sex who, for some reason, do not fit them, can be very worried about this.
If this problem touches you too, first of all, realize that you should not follow the lead of fashion. You don't need to have some idols and take an example from them. First, this is how you belittle your own worth, which leads to poor self-esteem and self-doubt. Secondly, imitation of someone is useless. After all, you see only one side of a person and you will not be able to fully reincarnate into him. And why is this necessary, if you need to love yourself first of all, and not idolize some kind of star on the TV screen.
Allow yourself to be yourself. Say that you are who you are and you will accept yourself. Finally, remember your own dignity and pride. If you yourself are not yourself, then your personality does not know the world at all. Remember that you are alone, and be softer, more tolerant of your own nature.
How to please others and remain yourself
You can simultaneously be yourself and arouse sympathy among others. To do this, you need to reveal your own advantages, emphasize your advantages and advantageously present even disadvantages. Believe me, almost any of your character traits or features of your appearance can be properly taught if you approach self-presentation wisely.
For example, accentuate your unusual hair color with the right clothing. Then your hairstyle will be perceived by others as a highlight. If there is any character trait that you are used to considering your flaw and suppressing, think about the situations in which this quality can be beneficial to you. For example, stubbornness prevents you from establishing contact with others, but will help you achieve your goals.
Develop your own style. Show off your flamboyant personality. Open up completely, then you get a cohesive, attractive image. Surely you have some kind of ability and talents. Work to develop them. Creative, self-sufficient, successful people are liked by others.
If you are happy with yourself, your attitude towards other people will also be sympathetic. Sarcastic, aggressive, caustic, gloomy individuals, first of all, are angry with themselves. When someone is doing well, he transfers his positive to others. Other people cannot fail to notice this, and are drawn to such a person in return.
