Why do people like each other? One of the most important life rules says: "Treat people the way you want them to treat you." It is called golden. In order for your friends and acquaintances to treat you well, it is worth learning how to please people.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't judge other people. Even if criticism is deserved, it is dangerous because it hurts a person's self-esteem. In order to inspire enthusiasm and increase in working capacity in people, you need to be generous in praise. After all, every person in his heart dreams of being significant.
Step 2
For people to enjoy talking with you, you need to experience joy in talking to other people. Show genuine interest in other people. Always try to understand the circle of interests of the other person, his worries and hobbies. When talking to the person, talk about their addictions, not yours.
Step 3
It is noticed that in everyday communication the best interlocutor is not a good speaker, but a good listener. Therefore, listen more and show sincere attention to the interlocutor.
Step 4
Be extremely polite and friendly. Remember that it is much more pleasant to communicate with a cheerful and friendly person than with a pouty and quarrelsome. You just don't want to talk to such a character.
Step 5
The statement “truth is born in a dispute” is very often not relevant. If you're right, don't argue. After all, even if you win the argument, your opponent will not admit it deep down and will feel resentment. What will be the attitude towards you after that? The answer is clear.
Step 6
When giving advice, do it diplomatically, be tactful. It is best to start with the phrase: "What do you think …?" After all, no one wants to feel someone's superiority over themselves.
Step 7
Know how to admit your mistakes. It is better to let your pride suffer than in the eyes of people you will look like an arrogant person who does not notice his mistakes.
Step 8
Be tolerant of others. After all, people are not perfect and have their flaws, including you. Try to look at events from the point of view of your interlocutor, more often put yourself in his place.
Step 9
Be genuinely involved in other people's problems. If you have an opportunity - help to solve this problem. After all, maybe someone will someday solve yours.
