Even close friends do not tolerate criticism, indifference, and inattention. It is especially easy to offend a friend with an insignificant remark regarding the assessment of his personality, taste, and actions.
Instructions
Step 1
Control yourself, your words, jokes. Minor nagging or humorous remarks can be badly perceived by a person if they are expressed at inappropriate times, in an offensive form, or offend their pride. Of course, you should not completely abandon criticism. If you are asked to give an objective assessment, just do it as tactfully as possible.
Step 2
Be honest and open with your friends. In order for a person to perceive you, listen to you, react adequately to any of your statements, try to emphasize your attitude towards him. For example, if you want to communicate something to your friend, start with the phrase: "I thought about you all day and came to the conclusion …" or "It is important for me that you called me …". By doing this, you will once again emphasize your personal attitude towards the person, and in case of dissatisfaction, soften your words.
Step 3
Try to be tactful and accurate in assessing the character and appearance of friends and loved ones. Even if you have been asked to speak frankly, do not rush to express what you think. In most cases, a friend just needs words of support, not harsh criticism.
Step 4
Don't forget to ask a friend if you need any rating, help, or advice. That is why you are considered friends in order to be reliable support and support for each other in any situation.
Step 5
Prolonged silence, ignorance and inattention from a close friend is offensive. If you suddenly wanted to take a break in communication, to be alone, honestly tell your friend about it. He will not be in vain in ignorance and bewilderment and will not pester you when you do not need it.
Step 6
Remember that attention to detail is important in a friendship. Do not forget about requests, promises, holidays, joint plans. This will only strengthen your friendship. Be patient with the people around you, forgiving their shortcomings, kind and caring.
