Women are sometimes willing to go to extreme lengths to be attractive in the eyes of a loved one. This applies to any changes in appearance: hairstyles, breast augmentation and lifting, eyelash and nail extensions. But the most common desire is to lose weight for the sake of a slim and graceful figure.
Excess weight usually causes complexes in girls and worsens their self-esteem. A woman begins to doubt her beauty and that a man loves her, especially if he himself hints to her about the need to lose weight. Because of such experiences, the fair sex is dieting and buying subscriptions to fitness or dancing classes. But they still cannot understand whether it is worth losing weight for the sake of a loved one or it is better to listen to themselves.
Why do women think they need to change?
Images of skinny fashion models flash on TV screens, on the pages of glamorous magazines. Female representatives take what they see for the standard of beauty and begin to compare themselves with it, and they note the results of comparisons not in their favor. The situation is aggravated by life situations in which the spouse pays less attention to his wife and looks at the passing girls with a sporty and slender figure. A woman in such conditions begins to feel unattractive. She is ready to make any sacrifices in order to maintain relations with her beloved or even slightly improve them.
However, in fact, this is not at all the basis of the desire to lose weight for the sake of a man. Most often, a woman is dissatisfied with her appearance due to self-dislike and fear of loneliness. But these psychological problems, most likely, will not be solved even after losing weight. If a woman is not too pleased with herself, she will always be able to find flaws in herself. At the same time, a confident woman, even a plump woman, will look attractive in the eyes of others and have crowds of fans.
To lose weight or not to lose weight?
It is important to determine the reason why you want to lose those extra pounds. You should not be led by a man's whim, as this desire is inherently deceptive. If your spouse loves you, chances are your body shape is of secondary importance to him. He will be happy if you are happy with yourself. If a man doesn't love you, no amount of physical change can radically change his feelings. In addition, not all girls are suitable for the reference standards of beauty. Many of them are much more comfortable with light fullness. And the tastes of all people are different.
It is quite another matter if you yourself understand that you will feel more comfortable losing excess weight. If this desire comes from within, and not from the people around you, it is not only possible to lose weight, but also necessary. It is important to feel in harmony with your body. And if it is not there, be sure to strive for it.
