Many girls are too jealous of their boyfriends. Sometimes there is reason for this, but more often than not it is nothing more than a fantasy played out. Such unfounded jealousy can greatly damage a relationship. Until that happens, try to get rid of the jealousy.
Instructions
Step 1
First, figure out what the jealousy is based on - on pretexts and assumptions or on well-defined facts? If everything is clear with the facts, then prepositions can be interpreted in two ways. After all, regularly meeting your boyfriend with friends may be just a meeting with friends, not a cover for cheating, so before you start jealousy, ask yourself if you have any evidence of cheating? If there are none, then you should not show jealousy for the guy, while arranging a stormy showdown. In the end, your loved one may get tired of making excuses for something that he did not do. And he may think that since you are so sure of his infidelity, then at least you should have a reason for this.
Step 2
You should not go to the other extreme, that is, suffer in silence. Your boyfriend will still notice that something is wrong. And his constant attempts to figure out the reasons for your depressed mood are unlikely to benefit your relationship. In the worst-case scenario, your boyfriend will just get tired of worrying about what he did wrong and would rather break up. To prevent this from happening, be honest about how you feel. Only without scandals and accusations. Admit that you are jealous. But emphasize that the feeling is embarrassing to you. This heart-to-heart conversation can be one of the most effective ways for you to overcome jealousy. Because most adequate guys will immediately rush to voluntarily dispel all the doubts of their beloved girl.
Step 3
If frank conversations with a guy help you defeat jealousy, but then it flares up with renewed vigor, you will have to do a lot of work on yourself. This is not very pleasant, but you have to admit to yourself that the cause of jealousy lies in your own complexes and stereotypes. It could be anything. Perhaps you are used to thinking that all guys are cheating or are too insecure about themselves and their attractiveness. Be that as it may, you will have to work on yourself, because a rare guy will agree to build a relationship with a girl who does not trust him and shifts her fears. When you manage to overcome your complexes and stereotypes, then you will be able to cope with jealousy.
