Quarrels between men and women often occur because representatives of different genders cannot understand each other. Often, the husband did not even notice that he said or did something wrong, and the wife was already offended so much that she did not even want to talk to her lover. However, there are many ways to behave in such a way as not to offend the lady.
Instructions
Step 1
Compliment correctly. Forget forever about typical male phrases from the category "you are so beautiful today." A woman is not beautiful today, not now, not at the moment, but always, so leave out the qualifying words. Otherwise, the lady may think that you are implying that the rest of the time she does not look very good.
Step 2
Watch your intonation. Women are much more sensitive than men, and they are able to pick up on the slightest change in tone. If you are asked if you liked the dinner, you angrily answer that everything was delicious, thinking only about the woman leaving you behind, she will probably be offended. Take your eyes off the monitor or TV screen for a minute and say "Yes" softly. In short, think not only about what you are saying, but also about how you pronounce the words.
Step 3
Give gifts appropriately. Believe me, this is not at all as difficult as it might seem at first glance. For example, you do not need to silently shove a bouquet into a woman's hands, as if you are trying to get rid of it as soon as possible, because she may think that you are making a gift just for show. It is better to present the bouquet calmly, slowly, gently touch the cheek of your chosen one and say: “This is for you, dear. You're beautiful.
Step 4
Never flatter a woman by clearly exaggerating her dignity. If you want to say a compliment, speak the truth. If a woman is sick, does not feel well, is tired, etc., there is no need to claim that she has a blossoming and rested appearance, since this can be perceived rather as a mockery. To understand this better, imagine that you are telling your wife how through your carelessness and short-sightedness you failed an important project, and she repeats: "You are so smart with me, so well versed in your profession, and now, thanks to your merits, you will surely get a promotion."
