A car, an apartment in the city center, a villa, a yacht, a private island, an airplane or even a spaceship. Everyone has their own level of aspiration, and it is impossible to say what success really is.
You need to personally ask yourself a question: what is success for you? Just let me steer your thoughts a little in the right direction. Success is even a small, insignificant shift from the point at which you were comfortable until recently, and then you wanted to move forward.
There are small, medium and large successes. You need to clearly define what is what. And the first category includes tiny shifts. For example, say you made a dollar more this month than you did yesterday. If you continue to express yourself in monetary terms, then the average success is one hundred, two hundred, five hundred, thousand dollars, and a big one is a million, for example. You yourself must determine the specific numbers.
Why was finance given as an example? Money is evil! Firstly, not evil, but secondly, it is a measurable indicator of a person's success. The more funds he has, the cooler he can be. And with this measurable indicator, everything is individual. One thousand dollars a month is enough. Moreover, not enough is enough. A million is not enough for another person. And one ex-wife of a rich man sued her husband for $ 75 million and was outraged that she could not live on this amount. This is how everything is relative.
Success is when you have achieved a goal. If you consistently achieve them, then this will characterize you as a successful person. That is why it is advisable to rejoice at every little achievement. In this case, your self-esteem will grow by leaps and bounds. In addition, it is very important to enjoy not only the result, but also the process. Many people believe that they will be happy when they have achieved it. And that when they come to the point to which they have been moving for so many years, then why should they then live? They have no incentive to move, they don't want anything. On the contrary, they perceive as happier those moments when they were just going to the goal.
Therefore, learn to enjoy the process, which almost no one knows how. In this case, you have a chance to feel successful today. Indeed, very often in the minds of people, the words "happiness" and "success" are, if not synonyms, then at least just close in meaning. Don't forget to rest.
